How To Find A Good Woman For A Wife Material
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My brother i hope by now you have already casted your eye to about 2-3
ripen sisters either in your church or outside. And if you haven't
pleased I advice you commenced praying and ask the Lord to open your
spiritual; eyes in order to identity a spiritual sister that is good for
a wife material.
As a brother who aim of getting marry to a beautiful sister you ought
to take a deep thoughts and reason positively before tying walking down
the aisle with any sister because a broken relationship or courtship is
better than wrong marriage.
How To Find A Good Wife Material:
- Moral Character:
Years ago, i visited a cousin brother of mine in my home-town but I was
surprise to behold a damsel in his room. I inquired from the sister “may
i know you? She responds by calling out my dialect name. I was shock
because it was the first I am seeing her but unknowingly that she has
already mark my identity.
However i later realized that she was my cousin sister but her moral
character was overwhelming. And this later prompted me to keep a close
tab at her and after several days while discussing with my cousin we
concluded to market her off because she will certainly make a good wife
material. And this moment she is already preparing for his traditional
wedding.
— The 1st vital
item you must keenly observed while trying to identify a good wife
material or over any sister you intended to marry is her “moral
character”, her mode of reactions to issues, forgiving heart,
tenderness, humility, respectfulness, neatness, interactive etc.
You don't need to get too close to her before beholding all this
attributes because it very easy to study and read the character of a
woman. While chatting either through social media or phone call don't be
carry away by words.
You must be sensitive to all her statement or words. Endeavour to take a
keen observant of her words, reason deeply and try to understand the
state of her mindset or motives. Be watchful of her reaction to every
word while communicating because finding a good wife material required a
great deal of works.
- Financial Management:
Sometimes ago, i sighted a certain sister in the church and decided to
give her a test of trial but unfortunately she failed woefully. She is
too demanding and such is a sign of a bad wife material.
— The 2nd vital
character to be watchful in that sister is financial management. How
can she manage your wealth successfully in your absent without incurring
any obstruction.
It often said, "Behind every successful man there is always a woman of
integrity and of a great financial manager" Can she trade and economized
with little capital without complains? Is she always demanding? Perhaps
often regard you as the governor of Central bank?
You don't need to get too close to her before discovering if she is a
great financial manager. You can simply give her a test of trial because
the "Sound Of Money" can easily get the job done.
- Communicative Skill:
Sometimes ago in church i ask one of my sister to take a good observant
of a particular lady in the church. Though she monitored her thoroughly
and when i inquired about her finding, To my awe she replied, "Though she is beautiful and can sing gloriously but she isn't good in communication"
I replied “How do you mean she isn't communicable? But she speaks and
interacts fluently" She continues, “The young lady doesn't communicate
easily” Truly when I decided to observed her I also behold same error.
— The 3rd vital
a character to be watchful while finding a good wife material is her
manner of communication. Is she very interactive, easily out spoken or
silent killer? As often said, "The power of a woman lays in her tongue
but if such woman is always few of words her intention is always
dreadful"
The fierce reaction of a Hen with her chicks toward any intruder can be
witnessed through her horrible sound cry; such alert always gathered her
chicks unto safety. Therefore, any sister that often felt shy, afraid,
ashamed and not easily outspoken will definitely find it difficult to
built a solidly home. You don't need to get too close before she
unveiled this attitude because it very easy to behold. You might
likewise send a trusted spy to deciphered such finding.
- Effectiveness In Prayer:
Sometimes ago while observing a certain sister in the church, i
discovered she is always attentive to night vigils. One certain day i
confronted her and she affirmed she didn’t like missing church night
vigils. She is prayerful and dedicated unto the things of God.
So the 4th attributes
of a good wife material to be watchful is her approach toward public
prayer gathering. Any sister that doesn't yield to public gathering
prayers will definitely find it hard to pray secretly.
As it often said, "a prayerless Christian is a powerless Christian" Therefore,
ensure you take good observant over her public prayers because iron
sharpen iron and getting married to a good perfect wife material will be
an ideal.
