The Perfect Ways Of Building A Successful Marriage
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Marriage isn't a bed of rose but rather hard work, discipline and
fight and there is no accidental fulfillment in marriage, don't expect a
happily built marriage of love and peace without putting-up a fight.
You must work it out the same way you always work-out your salvation
with fear and trembling because every successful marriage you behold
today takes a great deal of knowledge, wisdom and understanding;
cumbered with maturity and experience to built and sustained.
Building a successful marriage often constitutes both carnality and
spirituality, and wisdom is always applicable due to some irritating and
foolish Intel's it always constitutes.
However the place of prayers can't be neglects while building a
successful and solidify marriage because the easiest way to remotes or
cause the heart of your partner to succumbed unto your biding is
prayers; as it often said "the family that prays together always stays together"
Nevertheless, if your marriage is already at civil-War; i will
advice you digest every bit of this article and impact the content into
your life and am very certain the head and founder of your marriage, our
Lord Jesus Christ shall uphold, healed and restored back the backbone
of your marriage.
The Perfect Ways Of Building A Successful Marriage:
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of the unfortunate incidents that will wreck your happily married life
is when you neglect the important of Prayers and Power of Self-Control.
Though you're now married but how often do you pray? Yes, you have been
married for years but how often do you fast and wait upon the Lord with
your life partner?
Most often we assumed that once we got married there is no need for
praying and fasting. We seem to get occupied by career pursuit while
neglecting the most important aspect in our lives which is how to keep
upgrading and building our marriage unto perfection. The important of
fasting and praying can't be over emphasized while building a successful
marriage. It doesn't matter the level of your spiritual acquaintance.
Please read this part; "Any moment you begin to slack behind in
fasting and praying, the love-bond in your marriage and grace of self
control will certainly diminished"
Praying and fasting is a spiritual act of crucifying your mortal
flesh or mentality unto subjection of the spirit. It will empower you to
tame your tongue, honor and respect your spouse.
However marriage is not rosy but at the same time it is. It takes
understanding to make it glowing through praying and fasting. The degree
of not hiding anything from your spouse whether past or present or
tends to regret over the kind of spouse you marry or trying to read the
mind, study the character, submissive, respective and been honorable to
your spouse always need spiritual support before it can be activated.
Trying to know what your husband/wife likes or detest or telling
him/her what you don't like or likes can only be uphold by spiritual
support. I mean, just look around you and tell me which successful
business investment, Politicians, Pastors, Footballers, Musical Artist,
Movie Actors, or Government who doesn't depend in spiritual aid in this
end-time?
There is need to read marriage books and go to marriage seminars in
order to upgrade yourself and acquired knowledge about marriage but
before all these self-acquired knowledge can be activated it always need
Spiritual Backing" either you take or you leave it!
A Case Study:
A sister once asks "Sir, what act can be taken in order to abate a husband (Pastor) from beating his wife?
The respond to the question read thus "It's unscriptural and
unacceptable for Pastor to laid his hand or maltreat his beloved wife.
It's outrageous, pathetic and a demonic act for a husband to beat his
dear wife”
Moreover from the series of teachings we often heard in the
church is enough for we Christians to build a successful marriage. We
can't just be listening to all this divine counseling and refuse to
implement them. All the biblical teachings been taught in your church are
perfectly set-up by the pastor in order to revived our Christian lives.
Those teachings are vital and i believe the reason why we are not
activating the entire gospel sermon been impacted upon us is due to lack
of spiritual brokenness and probably due to wrong church.
However I would also plead, If your church is not impacting any
righteous fruits in your life, i advice you quit that church and sort
for another place of fellowship because you can’t build a successful
marriage while fellowshipping in the wrong church. You will be empty and
lack spiritual gifts and brokenness.
"Lack Of Spiritual Brokenness" is exactly the reason why many
Christian homes has turns into a Civil-War. Yes, at this moment you
have read countless books on marriage, honored several marriage seminars
and acquired series of marital knowledge and promise to treat your
future wife as a Queen.
Perhaps at this moment you can cook perfectly well and also perfect
in laundering, neatness and also promise to respect, submissive and
treat your future husband as a king. But fortunately, it's also required
spiritual backing through praying and fasting before those proposed act
can be activated in your marriage.
You might takes 50 years to acquired all the needed knowledge about
marriage and cultivate the act of studying one another but there is need
for a serious spiritual force or backing in order to activate those
knowledge, wisdom and understanding because by strength , wisdom and
knowledge shall no man prevail.
